I am a child who should have been apprehended, and I actually tried. I reported on my parents even wrote statements to the police. I was beaten and neglected by my parents, but they did nothing. The police reports disappeared as well. So I became a run away. When I was 15 I got pregnant and had t... access page ...
I am a child who should have been apprehended, and I actually tried. I reported on my parents even wrote statements to the police. I was beaten and neglected by my parents, but they did nothing. The police reports disappeared as well. So I became a run away. When I was 15 I got pregnant and had to move in to my Dad's, I still had a case still open with CAS and my oldest was born.
I became homeless when my parents through me and my 9 Month old son. I slept at friends houses but my ex was stalking me so bad they threw me out. I went to a home for abused women and they through me out for not making my bed.. so CAS came and I placed him with his great aunt. I started receiving threats that they were going to apprehended my son unwed I moved him in with my abusive mother.
So I did but she refused to take me to. Soon after his first birthday I moved back in with my father and tried to get my son, CAS came to my house and told me if I didn't sign a TCA I'd never see my son again, and that I didn't have time to speak to a lawyer. So I signed. I had to move out of my Dads and I moved in with my boyfriend. I continued to see my son. When the agreed upon three month period was up they served me.
My boyfriend was abusive they wanted me to leave him I got pregnant for my second son then my boyfriend committed suicide. CAS called me crazy and told me they were going to take my second child. However I went to st Mary's home in Ottawa which is a parenting shelter.
I was assessed throughout my second pregnancy and my second sons first 2 months if life then my son and I got discharged together because I passed so I was sent home with CAS approval. CAS at this point told me that in order to reintegrate my oldest that I would have to undergo a parenting capacity assessment. I passed this assessment a year later, and they made plans to give back my oldest.
My Mother however decided she wanted to keep my son to use him as a tool to hurt me. CAS let her take over fighting me. She tried to push CAS to adopt out my second son, she even picked out a home far away. However she didn't succeed. I still have my second son.
But after 4 years of my fighting first CAS and then her took 4 years. Our trial ended in march of this year. She got sole custody based on status quo. At this point I have two younger children at home with me, but I lost my oldest to my narcissistic Mother
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The reason they called me crazy is because my abusive boyfriend killed himself when I was 11 weeks pregnant with our son, and that unfortunately I found him, and suffered a deep grieving period.
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