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I havent seen my child in 4 years.

No contact number,no addresses, no pictures or anything.



I went away to different provinces for work because in my home town there were no jobs.



I would get court papers 3 months after the court dates were... access page ...

I havent seen my child in 4 years.

No contact number,no addresses, no pictures or anything.



I went away to different provinces for work because in my home town there were no jobs.



I would get court papers 3 months after the court dates were already past.



For the past 4 years I was wondering. Why do we fathers are put through so much mental stress by our courts because of a fail relationship/ marriage. It seems like "Baby momma's" only use court to suck us dry and ruin our lives?



I live like a bum struggling to put food on the table, pay Bill's, pay college and just live a normal life.



Where is the justice? And what can we do to change this system in Canada?

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Hello, I am a 42 year old single father of 3 daughters ages 9 yrsx2 and a 7 yr old with a medical condition that will challenge her throughout life. I recently come from court as I was fighting to right the wrong of my former partners decision to deny parenting time I was given a interim order wi... access page ...

Hello, I am a 42 year old single father of 3 daughters ages 9 yrsx2 and a 7 yr old with a medical condition that will challenge her throughout life. I recently come from court as I was fighting to right the wrong of my former partners decision to deny parenting time I was given a interim order without prejudice to exercise my parenting time. However I lost out on ten days of my time with them as I was submitting applications through court and did not want the girls to question why I couldn't get them if I was at home. I was denied parenting time while en-route from my shift work in northern Alberta and was notified upon arrival in kelowna. I remained there till I secured a court date. It left me only 2 days of parenting time. My former spouse is setting the board up with the help of legal counsel in order to not have to loose child support by breaking the status quo of a 50/50 shared parenting role in which we have as coparent and our kids are the primary benifactors She insinuates that I am not taking the administration of my daughters medicine properly with no basis or background just low hanging fruit that is serious in nature. I fear I will start to lose more and more time with my girls. I act as agent for myself and really could use some support,

advice and like minded fathers like myself who can shed some light at the end of the tunnel for me.

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I have most recently experienced first hand the negligent and dismissing behaviour from several employees at the Elliot Lake CAS office, when I followed it up to the Sault Saint Marie Office, they covered up the whole situation and railroaded me to get to anyone who would investigate the firing o... access page ...

I have most recently experienced first hand the negligent and dismissing behaviour from several employees at the Elliot Lake CAS office, when I followed it up to the Sault Saint Marie Office, they covered up the whole situation and railroaded me to get to anyone who would investigate the firing of their employee, my "worker", who did not investigate properly nor follow protocols and procedures when I reported my wife's abuse of my and my children.

Fathers need to be aware of the the CAS works, and how it relates to outcomes in Family Court.

Sadly In today's society women are still portrayed as victims in relationships with or without domestic violence. Women's actions are not considered equal to a males, and if a women was to hit a man it is always spun to her advantage as being self defence or excused because of temporary stresses or even her "baby blues" causing hormonal imbalances and mental health issues.

Why? Why does this happen?

The answer is simple... the agenda of CAS has stemmed from Women's protection and Women's rights. This organization uses the cloak of "children's aid" to support women, rightfully or not, as it follows THEIR agenda that women are the only victims in home with family violence.

I was told I was going to be charged with failure to report, the issues and behaviours I WAS and HAD reported.

But in the end the CAS worker Chris Ebby was fired, and I had no closure for the case, nor any support from the CAS when it came time to attend family court.

The CAS left me in a worse position that when I started. This organization and the people working for it act with immunity and impunity. They wrong me, and my family and I got nothing but bureaucratic excuses and cover ups from the supervisor and area supervisors.

As a result my wife's abuse was ignored, I had nothing to bring to the courts due to the delays with the CAS process and lack of any support, intervention or even a conclusion letter. This organization in my opinion is a fraud and is self serving to maintain their control in their manipulation of their own "investigations" and work policies. In short, they have created a system that functions to continue their own employment,regardless of who or if they actually help anyone at all.  

How do we say we live in a world of equality if women are the only ones' with rights?

How do we protect our children if men are ignored and denied equal opportunity and resources to support them?

 What future of a fair chance in this system, do our male children have in a society that has already labelled them the abusers, aggressors or perpetrators in a relationship before they have even entered grade school? 

The answer is little to none.

As long as men are demonized as being the abusers and BUSINESSES like the CAS that receive government funding to perform their own "investigations' with no outside scrutiny or reporting measures, ensures they will not be accountable for their actions and will continue to do whatever they want as long as it supports their regimes agenda and supports their employment.

What they are doing is perpetuating an old stereotype that only Men can be abusers...and is causing more damage, pain and suffering to men and our young boys than good.

Stop the CAS, report their mismanagement of YOUR case to the authorities, schools, and MP's.

David James - a father robbed of his children, a fair investigation and justice.

with the courts closed what is being done for fathers during covid 19

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

with the courts closed what is being done for fathers during covid 19

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

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My son is 20 years old now, for the first 12 years he did not know who I was due to his mom blocking my access(she had sole the divorce agreement has parameters). Even though my access was difficult due to my son in Calgary and I lived in Ontario. however did make some contact v... access page ...

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My son is 20 years old now, for the first 12 years he did not know who I was due to his mom blocking my access(she had sole the divorce agreement has parameters). Even though my access was difficult due to my son in Calgary and I lived in Ontario. however did make some contact via phone when the baby sitter answered. Mom had all the control and still does over my son. I have been to court many times it was almost settled when I would pay for 33% of his education costs since I overpaid in child support...it was appealed to a JDR before COVID 19 hit. now things have changed. I need some support in changing the outcome on this last order.



paid 300,000 in support

paid 150,000 in legal

I make ave 73 k per yr.Pre tax



I need some direction and cant afford to pay legal and 95k she demands in retro child support from 2011 12.



I lived in Alberta for 10 years now live in Ontario.



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What counts as ‘urgent’ in a pandemic? From children’s aid to custody cases, Ontario family courts adjust to COVID-19

By ALYSHAH HASHAM COURTS REPORTER

Sat., March 28, 2020

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What counts as ‘urgent’ in a pandemic? From children’s aid to custody cases, Ontario family courts adjust to COVID-19

By ALYSHAH HASHAM COURTS REPORTER

Sat., March 28, 2020

Family courts in Ontario are now dealing only with urgent matters, with hearings taking place remotely.



But what does the word “urgent” actually mean amid the COVID-19?



The provincial family court at 47 Sheppard Avenue East.

The provincial family court at 47 Sheppard Avenue East. (CHRIS SO / TORONTO STAR)

Across the province, judges, lawyers, legal clinics, couples and parents are learning how to adapt to the restrictions being placed on family court cases amid the pandemic.



So far in Toronto, the urgent matters have included the usual violations of custody arrangements and domestic violence, but could soon include child support variations as the number of Canadians laid off increases, said family lawyer Lorna Yates.



“What we are starting to see is people who, through no fault of their own, have lost their jobs and can’t maintain the level of support so they need to get a bit of relief. And you would hope that people would be able to deal with each other in a mature way,” said Yates. “But a lot of people can’t.”



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To help answer questions like whether a matter is urgent enough to be heard by a court, the Law Society of Ontario has set up a phone line to connect self-represented litigants with volunteer lawyers for half-an-hour of free advice (Toll-free 1-800-268-7568, General: 416-947-3310). If the issue involves domestic violence, the lawyers can also help with basic safety planning and contact information for family court support workers and Luke’s Place.



Legal Aid Ontario is also offering free legal advice by phone at 1-800-668-8258 with no financial eligibility requirement.



Family law information centres, which can assist with other needs including housing, interpreters and social assistance, also remain available by phone. Free remote mediation services are also still available through the courts.



But even with these resources, lawyers remain concerned about litigants who may not be able to easily access phone or video services, and those who require interpreters.



Some questions through the emergency line have been about custody arrangements as a result of COVID-19, said Yates, who helped create the emergency line.



There have been calls about ensuring the safety of children if one of the parents is a health-care worker, for example, she said. Other lawyers have been asked questions that have no clear answer, like what would happen should a lockdown be instituted, and whether there would be an exception to allow for parenting arrangements to continue.



The courts so far have said that custody arrangements should continue as normal where possible — modified where needed to ensure COVID-19 precautions including strict social distancing or mandatory quarantines are being followed — and that parents should try work out a solution themselves before resorting to a court hearing.



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“Right now, families need more co-operation. And less litigation,” said a recent decision from Superior Court Justice Alex Pazaratz. “None of us have ever experienced anything like this. We are all going to have to try a bit harder — for the sake of our children,”



The decision came from a Hamilton case where a mother had primary custody of a nine-year-old boy and the father had access on alternate weekends. The mother sought an urgent hearing to suspend the father’s in-person access out of concern the father would not maintain social distancing.



“Parents are understandably confused and worried about what to do. Similarly, this is uncharted territory for our court system,” Pazaratz said.



“None of us know how long this crisis is going to last. In many respects we are going to have to put our lives ‘on hold’ until COVID-19 is resolved,” he said. “But children’s lives — and vitally important family relationships — cannot be placed ‘on hold’ indefinitely without risking serious emotional harm and upset. A blanket policy that children should never leave their primary residence — even to visit their other parent — is inconsistent with a comprehensive analysis of the best interests of the child. In troubling and disorienting times, children need the love, guidance and emotional support of both parents, now more than ever.”



He said the matter would not be considered urgent at this point and urged the parents work it out on their own.



However “there will be zero tolerance for any parent who recklessly exposes a child (or members of the child’s household) to any COVID-19 risk,” he said.



Most co-parents are able to resolve parenting disputes without resorting to court hearings, making the cases that do come to court high-conflict, family lawyer Katherine MacDonald said.



But she has been pleased to see that, among her high-conflict cases, there have been efforts made to continue custody arrangements in a safe way. In one instance, a parent who has a car is picking up and dropping off their child rather than making the other parent use transit as normal.



However, she is concerned about her clients who have children in the care of the Children’s Aid Society. The CAS is no longer doing in-person visits — only phone and video — lawyers say. And the locations where supervised access typically occurs, like malls or parks, are now closed. Over months, the impact of this restriction could be devastating for both parents and children, MacDonald said.



“The pandemic is basically severing a lot of these face-to-face relationships between parents and kids, and it’s particularly important for infants, where video calls are just not the same,” said family lawyer Tammy Law, who specializes in child-protection cases.



Lawyers are waiting on decisions from the court on this issue, she said.



While the direction of the court in non-CAS cases has been to encourage flexibility and creativity in the best interests of the children, the position of the CAS has been inflexible, she said.



“It doesn’t matter if your client has an amazing plan, if your client is self-isolating and the other parent agrees to the access,” she said. “I’m not suggesting everyone should be having face-to-face access, some people may be at high-risk of contracting this virus, but that’s not all families.”



In a statement, the Children’s Aid Society of Toronto said that starting on March 18 they began “replacing some in-person contact with telephone or video calls when possible and appropriate for families” and continue to assess the practice on a case-by-case basis prioritizing public health issues and ensuring the safety of the children, youth and parents.



Yates says that as Superior Court of Justice gets the hang of remote hearings via phone and video they hope to be able to be able to begin to deal with some non-urgent matters again.



“That may take a lot of creativity and a lot of technology,” she said. “But there is certainly an openness to that in the courts.”



A silver lining has been that the courts are having to significantly improve their technological capacity, allowing for documents to be filed electronically and remote hearings.



“We are going to learn some stuff out of this,” said family lawyer Mary Reilly.



And hopefully, she said, it will improve court efficiency when the courts resume and face a huge backlog of adjourned cases.



Alyshah Hasham is a Toronto-based reporter covering crime and court. Follow her on Twitter: @alysanmati



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initializing the phone call in a fun busy moment,  in a moment where fun is trumps the fathers phone call 
27 July 2013 745pm  these phone calls are suppose to happen between the child and the father  in order to catch up on each others, strengthen the build of the relati... access page ...

initializing the phone call in a fun busy moment,  in a moment where fun is trumps the fathers phone call 
27 July 2013 745pm  these phone calls are suppose to happen between the child and the father  in order to catch up on each others, strengthen the build of the relation, however the mother decided her time trumps the time and her conspiracy to ultimately destroy the relation between the child and parent.

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*anonymous* I know this is a father's rights group first and foremost.. My gf was forced to sign her kid away to her ex's cousin (or be homeless, etc) she was 17-18 at the time. Her ex had been allowed to have the kid for visits.. has zero fathers rights he signed then away as well ( he was 12-23... access page ...

*anonymous* I know this is a father's rights group first and foremost.. My gf was forced to sign her kid away to her ex's cousin (or be homeless, etc) she was 17-18 at the time. Her ex had been allowed to have the kid for visits.. has zero fathers rights he signed then away as well ( he was 12-23 when he signed off on it) Long story short.. he's being allowed visits to the child.. but she's being left out... She desperately regrets ever giving the kid away.. it's not about getting him back.. but Just being allowed to see the child like the adopted parents are giving to the ( biological father ) ( who technically is their cousin)

Is there anything at all that can be done? It's really chewing her up inside.. especially when her ex posts pics of him with the kid. On Instagram at his home. He ignores the messages of the biological mother. And the adopted parents are allowing the bio daddy..

Hi there,

we have an appointment with our local MLA at the end of the month. I'm hoping you can put this out there:

I am looking for letters from other fathers who have had to deal specifically with fraud, forgery, perjury, false allegations etc, that have some sort of pr... access page ...

Hi there,

we have an appointment with our local MLA at the end of the month. I'm hoping you can put this out there:

I am looking for letters from other fathers who have had to deal specifically with fraud, forgery, perjury, false allegations etc, that have some sort of proof they are willing to share (this will be kept confidential with the MLA). If interested, they can email fixourfamilycourt@gmail.com. We are located in BC, so BC specific cases would be best, but having some examples from other provinces will help also.

I have some case studies that I will use as well as our own, but suggestions of other cases that are in CANLII are welcome, as are articles etc, dealing with the previous issues mentioned.

I will note that in general, the family court system is flawed and deeply biased. I'm hoping that we can start by chipping away at the worst of the worst first, and go forward from there.

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