This woman. This isn't an example of 'rape culture' its an example of a woman who got people to listen to her and its honestly hard to tell if she just freaked out or not but... at the same time this makes it harder for people who really have been through hell to get anyone to listen to them when... access page ...

This woman. This isn't an example of 'rape culture' its an example of a woman who got people to listen to her and its honestly hard to tell if she just freaked out or not but... at the same time this makes it harder for people who really have been through hell to get anyone to listen to them when it happens, because someone cried wolf and so they look at anything as if they are doing so. I didn't have to tell officers my ex husband raped me. Apparently it was more obvious than i thought with the unconscious cues i gave off, so the officer who i told simply 'i can't live like this anymore, please help me' marched right outside and asked him point blank "why did you rape your wife".

My ex husband got hysterical being caught and was blubbering saying "I don't know" "ill never do it again" "I can change". He didn't deny it, didn't need to be coerced into anything, he was caught and he knew it period. ---I have no tolerance for women like in this story.

One thing is certain, you don't forget it. You might need moments of collecting yourself but... the truth is the truth. Sometimes their are details you didn't recall before simply because your focus was elsewhere but you still noticed even if it wasn't your focus. The officer who took my ex away and the officers with him, when they did it they told me exactly what to do for a restraining order and i did it, told me everything i needed to know and even told me chances were he would be out in a couple of days because even if they did put me through hell at the hospital the attitudes about mental health and spousal rape both in this state would have made it nearly impossible to actually prosecute him.


It had nothing to do with the validity or lack thereof. That officer had been out in the past for my ex husband, apparently he had suspected quite a few times that something had happened but he was a good cop and without me saying i couldn't do it anymore their was little that could be done. Since the children were not abused, just me, and any time he tried to expose the children to it i removed all of us from the situation with help from someone else to do so... it didn't involve cps because they weren't in danger and any possible danger to them was neutralized. But... what he did to me... id never realized how obvious it was. THIS woman... i don't think i can forgive people who lie about it.