When Buddhist Monks did this in Vietnam, in the 60's, it drew international attention to the oppression of the Buddhists by the South Vietnamese regime and its support by the USA. Throughout the years I've seen several stories of men self immolating at family court, barely raising an eyebrow. Nob... access page ...

When Buddhist Monks did this in Vietnam, in the 60's, it drew international attention to the oppression of the Buddhists by the South Vietnamese regime and its support by the USA. Throughout the years I've seen several stories of men self immolating at family court, barely raising an eyebrow. Nobody gives a SHIT about men.

The burning monk, 1963:
/rarehistoricalphotos.com/the-burning-monk-1963/

I was shown this Page and I have to say I'm blown away by the narrow minded mothers of this women's coalition. I got blocked from another site because I voiced my opinion regarding father rights and how BOTH parents are needed equally. They also stated how dare us dads try a sever ... access page ...

I was shown this Page and I have to say I'm blown away by the narrow minded mothers of this women's coalition. I got blocked from another site because I voiced my opinion regarding father rights and how BOTH parents are needed equally. They also stated how dare us dads try a sever the bond between a mother and child that it was abusive to the child and mother.just typing that makes me sick Yet Mother s All over the world(not all) but it seems that you hear of more of the malicious type then the good ones . But these so called mother wouldn't bat an eye at destroying the relationship between the father and child THAT IS PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE.... I voiced my opinion and they CAN'T Even have a dialogue about it. it must be too hard on their entitled ears. When will this be about equality and not control financially or emotionally of the father.I came a cross this article on their Page I know its along read but entertaining

 Child Custody Want To Be A Good Dad?

Support Mom And Avoid Father’s Rights Groups Want To Be A Good Dad?

Support Mom And Avoid Father’s Rights Groups

By Trish Wilson

Reprinted with permission of the author Over the past decade, fatherhood has been all the rage and dads are naturally the talk of pundits on Father’s Day. So let’s say you’re a divorcing dad and you’re having trouble coping. You look for help on the internet and discover the father’s rights movement.Be warned – avoid father’s rights groups like the plague. According to the pro-feminist men’s group The National Organization For Men Against Sexism (NOMAS), “male supremacist groups (“Father’s Rights”) have caused unspeakable harm to our country and to our children by encouraging abusive fathers, often with little past involvement with their children, to seek custody as a tactic to pressure a mother to return or to punish her for leaving. “Shared parenting”, “friendly parent”, involvement of both parents and other concepts that seem fair and benevolent have instead been used to manipulate courts and legislatures to help abusive fathers. For instance, women are routinely denied custody of their children after being classified as “unfriendly” for asserting that the husband has abused them or their children.” Father’s rights groups prey on confused men angry and sad over the break-up of their relationships by stoking their rage and insecurities.

In addition, father’s rights groups encourage men to fight for custody of their children by using harmful tactics that further erode their relationships with their ex’s – and by extension their children. How can a dad – unemployed or working outside the home – be a good father? Not by fighting for custody or demanding “shared parenting” after divorce or breakup.

The best way a dad can be a good father is by providing support to the mother of his children, including both financial and emotional support. According to Florida attorney Elizabeth Kates, “a father’s most important role, and the one common “father factor” in all research that indicates any correlation between father involvement or presence and positive effect on child well-being is: a father who emotionally cares for, financially supports, respects, is involved with, takes some of the work load off of, and generally makes life easier, happier and less stressful for. . . his children’s mother.” If dad wants to make sure his children thrive he must do whatever he can to ensure that their mother is thriving. Stop fighting for “shared parenting” or sole custody if you are in court. Don’t badmouth their mother. Stop hiring paid mouthpieces that tout the latest psychological theory to show that the children are best off with a dad who had never acted as their primary caregiver. I know this will piss off lots of men but it is the truth. Don’t believe me? How about the research? A seven-year study by Dallas’s Timberlawn Psychiatric Institute found the one factor that was the most important in helping children become healthy, happy adults, was the quality of the relationship between their parents. This one factor was more important than giving kids hugs, providing good discipline, building their self esteem, or any other aspect of what is traditionally considered ‘good parenting’.” Other studies found that “the strongest single factor associated with resiliency in early years is social attachment to a primary caregiver.

There is considerable evidence linking secure attachment to social and academic competence and positive developmental outcomes, such as improved communication, problem-solving, social relationships and grades” and “the single most important determinant of child well-being after divorce is living in a household with adequate income.” Even the National Fatherhood Initiative agreed with the mother-needs-support assessment when it found that “the best thing a dad can do for his children is love their mother.” Researcher Michael Lamb, known for his studies of fatherhood, noted that “…the warmer, the richer, the more supportive the relationship he has with the mother, the better he is able to be a supportive and loving father for the child.” So dads, the message is clear. If you want your children to grow up to be happy and healthy adults, the best thing you can do for them is to make sure that their mother is comfortable, healthy, and happy. When primary caregiving moms thrive, children thrive. And happy children enjoy their fathers more.

September 17-19th, fathers’ rights activists [FRA’s], will be descending on the U.S. Capitol under the guise of parents’, children’s and family rights groups spouting cries of “parental equality” and “family court reform”. But what the organizers of the march hide from the public is their fathers’ rights roots and agenda: forced equal parenting and other “reforms” which benefit men and greatly harm women and children.

The FRA’s figured out a while ago that they can be more successful if they camouflage themselves as gender-neutral family court reform activists and put out calls for “unity” of the sexes, while deriding activists as sexist who identify the crisis as discrimination against women. The hypocrisy is stunning, but many cannot see it. It’s time the truth was networked to the public and legislatures so we can stop damaging legislation from being enacted.

How you can NETWORK the Truth:

1) Share post, like, react, comment
2) Contact organizations supporting the rally
3) Contact your legislators
4) Hand out flyers to the public and/or legislators
CONTACT your Senators and Congresspersons:


https://whoismyrepresentative.com/
VOICEMAIL example:
I am with the Women’s Coalition and we are informing legislators that the Million Parent March is organized by fathers’ rights activists in disguise as parents’ rights activists. They are pushing mandatory shared parenting legislation which is very harmful for women and children. Please see through their propaganda and disinformation and oppose any legislation proposed by them. Thank you.
EMAIL [copy and paste or write your own]:

Dear Senator/Congressman/Congresswoman, I am with The Women’s Coalition and we are informing legislators that members of the “Million Parent March” are actually fathers’ rights activists [FRA’s] in disguise. These FRA’s are posing as gender-neutral parents’ and children’s activists pushing for parental equality and family court reform, but they are lobbying for legislation that benefits men and harms women and children. Please don’t be duped.

The marchers will be descending on the Capitol Sept. 17 – 19th disseminating propaganda and lobbying for “shared parenting”. This is more accurately termed “Forced Equal Parenting” as it forces parents in contested custody cases to share parenting time equally regardless of the quality of their parenting or their relationship with the children. This is not equality and it is not in the best interest of children, which is the prevailing doctrine. Although there is always an exception for child abuse, evidence of abuse by fathers is routinely disregarded, so custody is commonly being given to abusers, causing much devastation to women and children.

FEP, and its cousin “friendly parent”, legislation, in effect, changes the best interest of the children standard to the best interest of the parent who wants to take primary custody away from the children’s primary nurturer, almost always the father, which explains why it is being pushed by FRA’s. By getting equal—or nearly equal—time with children, fathers can avoid paying child support and it empowers them to use children as leverage to get women to stay or to give up child support, and to continue to control and abuse them. Domestic violence and child abuse are epidemic, so it is no surprise that 75-85% of contested custody cases involve women trying to escape spousal and/or child abuse. Good men who care about what is best for their children do not launch custody battles against the mother.

Other propaganda FRA’s disseminate regards child support and alimony “reform”, and the false notion that fathers are the ones losing custody because mothers report abuse falsely and alienate children from good fathers. They often distort statistics to falsely portray mothers as being favored in custody in contested cases and fathers as losers, when the opposite is true.

And don’t be fooled by the fact that there are a lot of women at the march. Recruiting women is a main tactic to deceive legislators into thinking equal parenting is good for women too. Most of the women participating are either related or affiliated with FRA’s, don’t know the march is about FEP, or have been bamboozled into thinking FEP and neo-FRA’s will help them get their children back.
The FRA’s are holding their march on Constitution Day because they claim FEP should be a Constitutional amendment. We assume they will be laughed out of the Capitol for that.


The Women’s Coalition, along with many women’s, children’s, domestic violence and child abuse organizations are all opposed to FEP and will soon be proposing a new Child Custody Court system, one which will recognize differences in parenting, provide protections for abused women and children, uphold the best interest of the child standard, and provide due process for all.
Please oppose Shared Parenting/FEP legislation and support Child Custody Courts.

Thank you
[Your Name]
Women’s Coalition Activist
WomensCoalitionInternational.org

Facebook.com/TheWomensCoalition
You can also contact Michigan legislators to oppose the equal parenting bill there.

https://www.facebook.com/TheWomensCoalition/photos/a.1464723457135309.1073741828.1459888504285471/1980395818901401
“Shared parenting should be taken off the table until effective practices can be implemented to make sure all children are protected.”
- Barry Goldstein, JD
“‘Shared parenting’, ‘friendly parent’, involvement of both parents and other concepts that seem fair and benevolent have instead been used to manipulate courts and legislatures to help abusive fathers…When primary caregiving moms thrive, children thrive.
- Trish Wilson, investigative journalist
http://nomas.org/want-to-be-a-good-dad-support-mom-and-avo…/
“[An] empirical study found that court preferences for joint custody and the “friendly parent” principle outweighed judicial consideration of abuse claims.”
- Joan Meier, JD

http://scholarship.law.umn.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi…
“The Truth about Equal Parenting” with links to research:
http://boycottdivorcecorp.weebly.com/equal-parenting.html
FB page: https://www.facebook.com/PrimaryNurturers/
Million Parent March schedule of activities:
Sunday, September 17th, 2017 – Constitution Day Rally (9:00 am / Upper Senate Park)
Monday, September 18th, 2017 – MILLION PARENT MARCH (9:00 am / Lincoln Memorial)
Tuesday, September 19th and Wednesday, September 20th, 2017 – Peaceful Assembly, Legislative Meetings, and Presentations and Educational Seminars (Upper and Lower Senate Park and Union Station / See the Full Schedule for Times and Locations of All Events)

For more info on the March:
Website: http://www.millionparentmarch2017.org
FB page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1281865891876500/
COALITION NOTE: This information can be used against FRA’s in any country who are lobbying for equal parenting legislation.

You should be able to sue, but it isn't going to make muc...

Yes, its the courts that let these women deny you of your rights. They want a conflict, to create more litigation to gain financially. It is the government's responsibility to assure that every tax pay Canadian citizen has their rights upheld, and they do not, they are unaccountable, because... access page ...

Yes, its the courts that let these women deny you of your rights. They want a conflict, to create more litigation to gain financially. It is the government's responsibility to assure that every tax pay Canadian citizen has their rights upheld, and they do not, they are unaccountable, because they are corrupt.

I fought until I lost my mind, I could never win, I could not afford a lawyer and the Judge, the only Judge that looked over my case would not, I say not acknowledge my rights and would ask at a very annoying rate why I am not represented, and my answer always was I cannot afford a lawyer, then the legal aid question and waste of time applying for that, because the judge pretended to think that If legal aid denys me I can afford a lawyer. I delt with many lawyers, with false allegation I needed a criminal one that took all the rest of the money I had for family court, charges were dismissed and they never go after false allegation charges when a woman or a woman with a government paycheck lies.

I lost and they wanted me to go nuts, they count on it, they gain financially every time a man goes nuts. These people are very violent, these women will alienate your even in court, the special constables use to harass me and try to intimidate me. when I would get a little agitated, and they wanted me to, that made me angry, they would go up in court and testify against me, exaggerate the conversations and leaving out the buttons they pressed, I would never go to court or have any meeting with these people without recording every thing. they are arrogant liars that been getting away with this bullshit a very long time.

I have dealt with many lawyers and in my opinion and experience we are just Gentiles to them, nothing but sheep to sheer.

I call BULLSHIT! My Ex said I had panic attacks and stole our daughter, which he still won't let me see.. the courts have done nothing to help even though I've proved over and over he was lying.

He continues to alienate me and get high fives from all his men's rights buddies.. even t... access page ...

I call BULLSHIT! My Ex said I had panic attacks and stole our daughter, which he still won't let me see.. the courts have done nothing to help even though I've proved over and over he was lying.

He continues to alienate me and get high fives from all his men's rights buddies.. even though I NEVER kept her from him.. I use to pump and send breast milk and she was seeing her father by 1 month old. (He had to be talked into spending time with her.)

This MRA is bullshit, it's bitter men who find ways to use the courts to continue abusing their exs all the while spouting lies.. the courts are not stacked towards women, lol, quite the opposite now.

And this wasn't a big city progressive court house.. it was Perth Ontario.. small, rural, conservative.. so thanks for the total lies just to get more men riled up.  

As an ex crown ward, I thought your site was great.. but it's apparently just more ignorant nonsense. 

I will no longer be supporting such. 

I am a survivor of false accusation of an abuser. My voluntary visit to " A  Design for a new Tomorrow" led to my inquirer Hugging me - saying - "I wish you all the best". "I really wonder whom the abuser is here in this situation"

The one sided regs. must stop ! ! !&n... access page ...

I am a survivor of false accusation of an abuser. My voluntary visit to " A  Design for a new Tomorrow" led to my inquirer Hugging me - saying - "I wish you all the best". "I really wonder whom the abuser is here in this situation"

The one sided regs. must stop ! ! ! 

Dear friends, I would like to participate in the aud...

A top psychiatrists in Toronto at the CAMH is very familiar with the dangers of feminism. He feels it. He is unable to treat his female patients properly due to draconian laws.  Although psychiatry is more isolated than being a Teacher when it comes to being with a number of females, it is a... access page ...

A top psychiatrists in Toronto at the CAMH is very familiar with the dangers of feminism. He feels it. He is unable to treat his female patients properly due to draconian laws.  Although psychiatry is more isolated than being a Teacher when it comes to being with a number of females, it is a real problem none-the-less.

He said because of the political climate feminism has created, you can not  treat some females. They get away with so much and won't change.

He has one patient that is a real menace to her husband. They are presently separated and she has custody of the children and yet, threatened to pour gasoline and light a match to him. Worse yet, she went into his work  with gas container in hand! Security took the container and told her to leave but no one called the police and she was never arrested for threatening hr husbands life.

Then his boss said he can't have this happening at work, putting employees in danger so told him he had to leave!

This father lost his job so her plan in threatening for more money back fired, putting him at risk and his children at risk of poverty. Her 16 year old fled to live with Dad but he could not take her because he knew once he did, his wife would constantly come to the house and cause trouble. The psychiatrist also said that this is not an isolated case. It is common! 

Many women he sees are truly like this and they get away with it. He has tried to counsel her as to her behaviour and she nods ad says yes, but just goes back right at it ! The psychiatrist said that the laws protecting women from stupidity is out of control and  so many professions are controlled by it. Having women rule in so many sectors of life is not helping.

There are too many in positions they should not be in, building policies that are not logical for future growth and well being  over all. They are taking mens jobs, and their mentoring of other women is ineffective. Yet, society supported the ideology created  that educated past generations  and continues to support it , to everyones detriment.

This feminist  ideology and VAWA  changes policy and builds laws that ruin lives. The psychiatrist we talked to has been in the field many years and he sees it clearly.  We are run by "an ideology", not common sense and logic.

This is in the schools, the universities, the courts and the professions and it is simply not going to work. It is in peoples "thinking" Truly is is brainwashing, the way they set women up and support them to take jobs they should not be taking. Worse, paying them $100,000.00 a year (or more)  40 years of this and look at the results. 

This does not mean women can not work in jobs that are held in respect.  It just means they should not be demanding laws to protect them when they are foolish. It means they also must take instruction and criticisms from men who are trying to lead. This is a dangerous set up for all society and it is breaking down specifically because of this very problem that feminism created. 

It has a domino effect and the dominoes will fall. 

All of us will feel it.  Men will drop out because they are pushed out and loose their children because the courts support it. Women will loose in the end because men simply won't support stupidity. Why should they?  Children will loose their right to having fathers lead and nurture their own children. Wives will loose their husbands to false allegations, women, their boyfriends, their brothers. 

What is left ? Women leading and eating each other for lunch as society disintegrates.

Thanks feminism, for nothing. Many see it. Many feel it. Thank goodness for that at least. We are wasting such a good resource we have in men!

Feminists, don't bother trying to fix it please. You will just make it worse.

Just go way or at least admit you were wrong.

If top professionals are now looking at this and saying this problem is dangerous and systemic, it is. 

And the mother of the year from family courts go to this kind of mother this is sad and pathetic seems she is very mentally ill and needs serious help ,if you treat your kid like this please get help and stop

And the mother of the year from family courts go to this kind of mother this is sad and pathetic seems she is very mentally ill and needs serious help ,if you treat your kid like this please get help and stop

Fast forward in 2010 my ex secretly filed for divorce, had me served, and a week later filed a false report to evict me from my own house for 4 months, not allowing me to see my girls.
Divorce finalized 2011, a year later getting the "minimum" standard of time. Christmas 2011 was the last ti... access page ...

Fast forward in 2010 my ex secretly filed for divorce, had me served, and a week later filed a false report to evict me from my own house for 4 months, not allowing me to see my girls.
Divorce finalized 2011, a year later getting the "minimum" standard of time. Christmas 2011 was the last time I had any meaningful time with then 14yr old daughter.

Since then I have seen her approximately 10 hours. (683 days and counting).

Youngest now 12 still spends time, and sometimes it's quite normal, sometimes awkward, but I never get an extra minute, makeup time, nor do my girls reach out to me. Most phone calls go unanswered. Girls are being alienated, yet they can't see it, don't believe it, and are encouraged to "do what they want". Most recently I discovered very nice pictures of my now 16 year old, and was immediately blocked on Facebook. My girls don't even barely know their own fraternal family.

I've fought for 4 years to be part of their lives, and I'm exhausted and done with the courts.
How does a father deal with the acceptance of this and move on? Every day it tugs at my heart, and while I cannot give up, I must somehow let go.