my ex and i split up in october of 2012 since then things have gotten considerably worse between us she found a new bf a couple weeks after our split and we are ion family court disputing custody. normally i would ask te child reside with the mother and we have joint custody but she keeps withhol... access page ...

my ex and i split up in october of 2012 since then things have gotten considerably worse between us she found a new bf a couple weeks after our split and we are ion family court disputing custody. normally i would ask te child reside with the mother and we have joint custody but she keeps withholding the child whenever she sees fit expecs to me do everything and get nothing. is there any fathers who won custody of their child who have advice my lawyers keeps saying agree agree agree but i cant do it anymore so lost tired f seeing my daughter hurt

You are still going to court??

*I stopped seeing my bf because his ex was a psycho control freak who decided to withdraw his kids from him cause I was with him and he was happy. There's nothing you can do about it cause there are massive loopholes in the system. Sometimes I wonder why we even have a legal system anymore....

yes i orginally agreed to my ex having our daughter as any child should be with theior mom but ever since she got this new bf weve been in court c.a.s is involved becuz of my ex like i dont understand any of it

*as a mother without custody...by illicit means...i believe it is for the child...look up canlawii existing family law case decisions that is the result of same situation as you.

* You're not going to win using a conventional approach... and unless your wife consents to joint in settlement, you're not likely to get it. Your lawyers don't give a fuck... they're going to tell you to do this and do that to appease the judge and make you look like a good guy... in reality, that does fuck all for you. If she has possession of the child, she establishes the status quo - you want to have possession of the child. If you want to win, you have to think outside the box - but that doesn't mean being ruthless or absolutely immoral like many such as your ex are - it's not easy to do... but you can't let her steal your child away from you. You have to maintain your honour and your child's interests... but you have to win, as well. Be certain: She does not put the child's interest first - she puts her own desires first. She will use and abuse CAS and other tricks in place within the system to make you look like a bad man. Always be on guard, always have a recorder... and never give her anything at all that she can twist and use against you.

do the police not help anymore?

haha... they help to make it worse.