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Hello. My wife and I split recently and she has been going back and forth from fort Saskatchewan to peace river staying with her mother. She refuses to get a local job and says she can get one in peace river. My question is can she legally move my kids 5 hours north of me with out my consent? She... access page ...

Hello. My wife and I split recently and she has been going back and forth from fort Saskatchewan to peace river staying with her mother. She refuses to get a local job and says she can get one in peace river. My question is can she legally move my kids 5 hours north of me with out my consent? She says it’s in the best interest for the kids but really it’s the best interest for herself. The best interest for the kids would be keeping them in their hone town with their friends dad and schooling would it not be?

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

I am just reaching out for some advice. My ex is trying to have a no contact order put on me. She is stating I’m harassing her. Not once do I feel I’ve done this. We text back and forth I try being very calm. She is relentless in trying to hurt me. Calling me names using my son agains... access page ...

I am just reaching out for some advice. My ex is trying to have a no contact order put on me. She is stating I’m harassing her. Not once do I feel I’ve done this. We text back and forth I try being very calm. She is relentless in trying to hurt me. Calling me names using my son against me. Even trying to bring my other child and mother into it. I pay my child support every month. She has threatened me saying watch my back around town. Saying people are watching me. Even had the nerve to come onto my property when I was at work and toss stuff of mine from her vehicle in my driveway. I’m just unsure if the courts will see my side of the story as well.

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Im in need of assistance to file complaints on both cps and a psychiatrist who colluded into forcing me to take a "medication" that just gave me access to my daughter(not guaranteeing custody) which i was not informed of the damage to my health the drug can cause. My daughter was kept away from m... access page ...

Im in need of assistance to file complaints on both cps and a psychiatrist who colluded into forcing me to take a "medication" that just gave me access to my daughter(not guaranteeing custody) which i was not informed of the damage to my health the drug can cause. My daughter was kept away from me by her mother and then she gave my daughter to her boyfriend who miraculously lost her to cps in calgary shortly after he learned he was not the father. I learned of these events and contacted calgary cps unforced to offer my dna for testing resulting in a match. She was transferred to a foster home in edmonton near where i reside shortly after at which point approximately a 4 year war started with edmonton cps over custody of my daughter. Two different lawyers from legal aid on advice of the court gave no assistance but took my money costing over $3000.00 between the two of them destroying my faith in lawyers. I continued the war on my own reluctantly complying with these "proffesional's" (government officials) demands to gain custody of my daughter. After pleading to be takin off this so called medication which gave no help mentally like i was told it would and diminished my health and parenting abilities to no avail, my daughter volunteered to stay in custody so i could refuse this treatment and violation of my rights so i had a chance to care for her past the point she would age out of foster care.

I informed these government officials this strategy and they finally agreed to allow discontinuation of the treatment and maintaining custody...with stipulations...that have been compromised by the covide pandemic, causing concern. But my main concern is the ill effect the treatment had on my body, health, and mentality and that these effects have not subsided from stopping their treatment leaving me with diminished capacity and challenges parenting i otherwise would not have had. I fear discussing my issues with them where they may rescind my custody. I wish to file complaints against both parties only to find myself in a loophole where they are protected. The psychiatrist complaint requires proof the drug caused ill effect when i was told it wouldnt but my health wasnt monitored as i was not informed it should be and im told cps can disregard anyone's rights for any reason and there's diddely i can do about it. Fortunately i maintained enough composure and logic to maintain a working relationship with cps and replaced the psychiatrist which allowed me to gain custody with sole parenting rights and sole guardianship as the mother forfeited her rights in court. Now the mother has retained a lawyer who contacted me on her behalf who left me a voicemail with little info and i have not returned the call. Mainly because im not obligated to and im trying to keep the shelfish and abusive chick who i think may have even colluded with the police to trump up bogus charges on me away from us and not allowing her to continue her destructive and abusive behavior. Any help, advice, tips i could get regarding this matter?...i even tried to file a complaint against one of the legal aid lawyers who went against my wishes and made a deal with the director which gave the director pgo granted they give custody to my parents in ontario and the director paid for moving expenses to ontario.

My parents were unfit as i tried explaining to the lawyer and i wouldnt have been able to afford living on dissability out there like i am able to here in alberta...im on dissability for mental health issues even though when this all started i was attempting to live a normal life and trying to maintain employment(with little success, was bounced from job to job for various reasons)...but the lawyer webt ahead with the deal, against my wishes and so i lost custody as the director was granted a temporary pgo pending an evaluation of my parent's ability to raise my daughter, which he never mentioned, and they failed granting the director pgo...i filed one year and one month later as per the regulations for the pgo to be rescinded and was they rescinded it giving me full rights and sole custody. Only to have cps take my child again about six months later because i learned the devastating effect the medication was having on my health and causing issues regarding parenting as i briefly mentioned...the law society found in favor of this crook of a lawyer in my complaint and my appeal...so my rights have been violated left, right, and centre, my health has been diminished any my attempts to complain and seek retribution are going nowhere. How do you fight back with these people, or are we really forced to be at their mercy with no true justification and forced to lick our wounds from the war and be greatful with custody no matter the cost? I look forward to hearing what any of you have to say regarding this nightmare, thankfully my child is a great kid giving some solace in finally getting her but with concerns of diminished health and threat from the mother trying to regain her rights.



Sincerely,

JERED SAGODI

780 729 0979

forgettensagodi@hotmail.com or

forgettensagodi@gmail.com

Contact Location: Canada Alberta edmonton

Hello,

My son is 20 years old now, for the first 12 years he did not know who I was due to his mom blocking my access(she had sole the divorce agreement has parameters). Even though my access was difficult due to my son in Calgary and I lived in Ontario. however did make some contact v... access page ...

Hello,

My son is 20 years old now, for the first 12 years he did not know who I was due to his mom blocking my access(she had sole the divorce agreement has parameters). Even though my access was difficult due to my son in Calgary and I lived in Ontario. however did make some contact via phone when the baby sitter answered. Mom had all the control and still does over my son. I have been to court many times it was almost settled when I would pay for 33% of his education costs since I overpaid in child support...it was appealed to a JDR before COVID 19 hit. now things have changed. I need some support in changing the outcome on this last order.



paid 300,000 in support

paid 150,000 in legal

I make ave 73 k per yr.Pre tax



I need some direction and cant afford to pay legal and 95k she demands in retro child support from 2011 12.



I lived in Alberta for 10 years now live in Ontario.



Can you Help #Fatherslivesmatter



Thank you for your time I have only scratched the surface of this hardship





Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Good day i need to speak with someone my name is michael ...

Hello, I am wondering if any of you have dealt with a similar situation or have advice for me.

I have 50/50 custody of my daughter, my separation agreement states that I pay 641$ Per month in support (and is subject to change yearly per the offset table amount). So it went up to 720$ ... access page ...

Hello, I am wondering if any of you have dealt with a similar situation or have advice for me.

I have 50/50 custody of my daughter, my separation agreement states that I pay 641$ Per month in support (and is subject to change yearly per the offset table amount). So it went up to 720$ last year because my ex was on maternity leave for another child with another man.

Now this year it is set to go up to 938$! Because she decided not to return to full time ( or any) employment after her maternity leave expired. So she is on social assistance and She also works for her dad’s family business under the table. Which I imagine would be hard to concretely prove in court.



So I refused to pay the full amount Because it’s unethical in my eyes. I got a letter from her lawyer threatening to take me to court and having to pay her law fees if I don’t pay now. So I have just been paying the initial 641$ per month until I hear back from my lawyer, which takes forever.

Any advice as how to proceed? Do I have a chance in court at having it reduced?



Thanks ahead.

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

My 13 yr old son wants to live with me and visit his mom ...

Just wondering if you know any resources for lawyers . I’m trying to get 50/50 split and I think I have a good case for it .

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

Just wondering if you know any resources for lawyers . I’m trying to get 50/50 split and I think I have a good case for it .

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

Hi.



I am a graduate student from the University of Lethbridge in Alberta. There is very limited research focusing on men who have experienced violence within their relationships, and I am hoping to address this. I am hoping that you will share my study on your page.
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Hi.



I am a graduate student from the University of Lethbridge in Alberta. There is very limited research focusing on men who have experienced violence within their relationships, and I am hoping to address this. I am hoping that you will share my study on your page.



If so this is what I am hoping you'll post:



There is very limited research focusing on men who have experienced violence within their relationships, and this current research hoping to address this. This study is looking at how men experience violence and conflict within intimate relationships, including the use of the legal system to perpetuate violence in these relationships. To help understand the male experience of this issue we need Canadian men (18+) who have experienced violence or boundary crossing (such as emotional, financial, or physical boundaries) to participate in the study. It will take approximately 15 minutes and be completely confidential. If you have any questions please contact Katie Ingram (m.ingram@uleth.ca) M.Ed. student, University of Lethbridge.



Please follow the link to participate.

https://uleth.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_51MbaByqnn6l8ln



Thank you in advance for your time,

Katie Ingram

M.Ed. student University of Lethbridge

Contact Location: Canada

Hi,

I am seperated. My wife has our 16 month son. I just heard that she moved into a place with a guy she meet off the internet 6 montha ago.

The place court has an adress on file is her mothers apartment. Do I have the right to know what the new address is where my c... access page ...

Hi,

I am seperated. My wife has our 16 month son. I just heard that she moved into a place with a guy she meet off the internet 6 montha ago.

The place court has an adress on file is her mothers apartment. Do I have the right to know what the new address is where my child is living. Also do I have a right to know who they are living with?

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

The Family Court Resistance on Facebook.

Contact Location: Manitoba Canada

The Family Court Resistance on Facebook.

Contact Location: Manitoba Canada

Hello

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Could you please make an anon post for me? We are looking for help. Ontario - Partner has not seen or talked to his children since March. They were in an access centre until their next court date because the judge wanted to have his parenting skills evaluated as he has had his children withheld f... access page ...

Could you please make an anon post for me? We are looking for help. Ontario - Partner has not seen or talked to his children since March. They were in an access centre until their next court date because the judge wanted to have his parenting skills evaluated as he has had his children withheld from him for over a year. OCL involved, and report disputed, with lawyers help, because it was very one sided in investigation. Then Covid happened. The centre closed. The centre then offered to set up video and phone access for participants until in person access could resume, but the mother refused to participate. Months have gone by and my partner has no idea how his children are. He paid his lawyer another $1500 retainer on Friday and on Monday contacted her to ask her to file an emergency motion...she flat out refused. She first said she was "too busy" to do it that week but would do it next week. Then she said she would not file an ex parte because it was "common courtesy" to let the other lawyer know what they were doing. What?!? Partner said "I need you to do this, I have not seen or hear from my children in months!". Then the lawyer played the "you're bullying me and I don't think this relationship will work" card. HIGHLY unprofessional IMO, especially after taking another retainer only to tell your client "you're too busy". Anyway, my partner fired her. Has anyone here had to file an Ex Parte motion on their own and could offer some guidance? We're looking for a new lawyer in the meantime but all the good ones are tied up or out of financial grasp.Thank you.

Contact Location: Kitchener

Preventative Measures



Hi All, I'm living in BC and looking to enter a serious relationship.



I would like to be pointed in the direction of BC specific resources regarding father's rights, common-law marriage requirements and so on.


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Preventative Measures



Hi All, I'm living in BC and looking to enter a serious relationship.



I would like to be pointed in the direction of BC specific resources regarding father's rights, common-law marriage requirements and so on.



Basically, I would like to arrange the relationship in a way that I do not give up leverage both on my income, and on custody of my future children.



I am all for supporting each other in a healthy way, but the current state of affairs is an absolute shambles and precautions are necessary.



Also, if someone knows a good lawyer with whom I could discuss these matters with, that would be greatly appreciated.



Thank you all, and good luck in your quest for justice.





Contact Location: British Columbia

Hi,



I am contacting you in regards to my husband's son, he was taken and hidden from my husband for the last 7 years, his ex has just recently contacted him and told him to take him as she cannot handle him...the problem is he is located in Alabama and we are in BC, and we ... access page ...

Hi,



I am contacting you in regards to my husband's son, he was taken and hidden from my husband for the last 7 years, his ex has just recently contacted him and told him to take him as she cannot handle him...the problem is he is located in Alabama and we are in BC, and we now have been having multiple conversations with the mother and there has been alot of information shared with us...the child has been previously taken from her regarding substance abuse issues and abuse, we have multiple recordings of her under the influence from the time she wakes up until bedtime we also have recordings from his son that his mom has punched him and please come and get him...we have her on recording drinking and driving with his son in the vehicle...we have no idea were to start, my husband has dual citizenship and we just recently moved back..his son is 9 years old!



Any information that you could provide regarding emergency custody would be greatly appreciated



Thank you in advanced,



Contact Location: Chilliwack

Hey I'm writing because I'm in need of some advice. I split up with my wife of 13 years in Nov 2018. I have two daughters with her whom I haven't seen since. I really miss them and would like some help on being able to see them again. Ok thanks,

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Hey I'm writing because I'm in need of some advice. I split up with my wife of 13 years in Nov 2018. I have two daughters with her whom I haven't seen since. I really miss them and would like some help on being able to see them again. Ok thanks,

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Hi my name is ----- I went to court after searching for her for a year after she went on the run . I got  severed to come to court an the judge allowed her to move away with my child .

now I haven't seen my child in 4 years an I get attcked by her online on f... access page ...

Hi my name is ----- I went to court after searching for her for a year after she went on the run . I got  severed to come to court an the judge allowed her to move away with my child .

now I haven't seen my child in 4 years an I get attcked by her online on facebook . I dont have money to pay the child support an air travel that I was told i have to pay to see my child .

 I have a nack an nwck injury that prevents me from trealing long periods of time . from the child abuse my son ------ who was her step child my son she hung him out a 14th floor window an hit the hits that were in the house which were her two daughters an my youngest .

see that I kicked her out my house cas didn't follow up an ———— is still dealing with issues from her abuse . a fear for my son  that we share because it not her first time in cas with child abuse . all I want to do is see my son again an kiss him an let him family that he got taken away from see him again . please help me I now suffer from ptsd from a work injury I had when with her an an from the abuse that I witness here an suffer from depession an anxiety from seeing how my government treated me .

please help me

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

My kids mom is using the virus as an excuse for not send my kids to visit me . I haven’t seen my kids since Christmas. . We went to court and the judge ordered that my kids time with me . What can I do

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

My kids mom is using the virus as an excuse for not send my kids to visit me . I haven’t seen my kids since Christmas. . We went to court and the judge ordered that my kids time with me . What can I do

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

Hey please when will court open again? Just when I put my papers together to submit for my divorce that is when lockdown started. I really need to get this done so I can start my life again looking after my son alone is not easy for me in this country no family just me and my son. If you have ide... access page ...

Hey please when will court open again? Just when I put my papers together to submit for my divorce that is when lockdown started. I really need to get this done so I can start my life again looking after my son alone is not easy for me in this country no family just me and my son. If you have idea when court will re open again for divorce let me know. Thanking you in advance.



Prince. Newmarket city.

Contact Location: Ontario Canada

Good day!

Well not sure how to begin but here we go. I was married for 7 years to a Narcissist, I had no idea until the day i left her. We have four boys together, they moved from Edmonton to Calgary last fall. Most of my story is very much like a roller coaster ride. I am happier to b... access page ...

Good day!

Well not sure how to begin but here we go. I was married for 7 years to a Narcissist, I had no idea until the day i left her. We have four boys together, they moved from Edmonton to Calgary last fall. Most of my story is very much like a roller coaster ride. I am happier to be away from her but I really miss my kids. I got to facetime with them today, 4 whole minutes. Its sad. I'm on my 3rd lawyer now. The first one gave away everything, even laughed at me when I mentioned about my disability money being gone. I started drinking and almost killed myself 2 years ago. Yes, disability money for ptsd, anxiety, depression, tinnitus from 6 overseas deployments. Total of just over $218K, she partied it all away with her friends while I was away on field deployments and courses. Kept telling me about how much money we are saving for retirement. I went to the banks, who did nothing. I called the anti-fraud site, did nothing. Went to the RCMP in Nov 19, I call every Sunday to leave a message. They still haven't returned my call. So stealing your husbands disability money is ok. I have a good lawyer now and I'm hoping that something positive will happen soon. I have hope.

That's it in a nutshell, I could go on, but then its just venting.



Thanks and hope to hear from you




Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Hello .I would like information on my rights to my 5 mont...

My ex wife has tried every dirty trick in the book in hopes I will just give up. Not gonna happen.

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

My ex wife has tried every dirty trick in the book in hopes I will just give up. Not gonna happen.

Contact Location: Canada Alberta

Im looking for a recommendation for a lawyer in the London area.

Someone who actually cares about uniting a father and his family with the children and is willing to work hard and fight to make it happen and not just interested in the money. We havent seen or heard a thing about the ki... access page ...

Im looking for a recommendation for a lawyer in the London area.

Someone who actually cares about uniting a father and his family with the children and is willing to work hard and fight to make it happen and not just interested in the money. We havent seen or heard a thing about the kids since the end of Jan. We had court in March but it was cancelled because of covid 19 .Thank you

Contact Location: London Ontario Canada

I have a question,



My ex hasn’t let me see the kids since Covid started, and I have a ruling from the judge stating I have the kids every second weekend. Now she’s saying since I live in Quebec now. I won’t be allowed to take the kids across the border.access page ...

I have a question,



My ex hasn’t let me see the kids since Covid started, and I have a ruling from the judge stating I have the kids every second weekend. Now she’s saying since I live in Quebec now. I won’t be allowed to take the kids across the border.



I was wondering what my legal options are and if she has any credit to not allow me to see my girls because of A. Covid and B. I live in Quebec (gatineau) literally 20 mins from where she lives.

Contact Location: Ontario Canada