I read your story. Listened to the recording.
The Mother is a disgrace to humanity as a parent.
When you were together, were you just a sperm donor? I am just asking since, she thinks her lame ass excuse early in the am to grams house is DAY CARE. Her condsending mono toned controlling voice is the sound of an angry woman who hates herself.
Bottom line, you should sue her and the courts as your rights are violated as a citizen. Did you give the courts permission to control you and your parenting?
50/50 parenting unless unsafe or unfit.
Don't give up.
Don't stop.
A friend of mine just told me after PA over 10 yrs, the 4 kids found him and they told their mom how terrible she was to create such a terrible environment with their father. Karma.
They no longer have a relationship with her even though the Dad tries to enforce them to be with her...here is what they said,
THE TIME WITH HER WITHOUT YOU IN OUR LIVES WAS LIKE A CAR WITH NO GAS. A PLATE WITHOUT FOOD. A BRAIN WITH NO HEART. IT WAS LIKE A DEATH. CONFUSION. GOSSIPING. LIES. BRAINWASHING. SOME OF THEM HAVE ISSUES NOW. NEVERTHELESS, THEY ARE DONE WITH MOM. HOW SAD. WONDER HOW SHE THINKS ALL HER 'HARD WORK' WORKED FOR HER NOW. KARMA. SAD FOR THE KIDS, THEY CHOSE THE TRUTH. DADS LIVES MATTER.
Hang in there. Your a hero to humanity.