Alienated Family Members I am a child of the 70's and of Divorced Parents

Father re-married once and mother re-married 3 times. 

They Divorced when I was 2 or 3. To this day they still use us kids against one another.

I was physically abused from step father number one. Used to get beatings that made a slave whipping look mild.

Married Wife No.1 when I was just 20. We were best friends during our High School Years.

I went into the service and she got knocked up.

To do what I thought was an Honorable thing I went ahead and adopted her out of marriage daughter and gave her my last name so that she would always have a father and know this when she got older.

The marriage didn't work out as we were both way to young. She went back to her mothers and I remained in the service for the next 3-1/2 years. That was the last I was to see or hear from her until 1998.

Complete Alienation from daughter No.1. Jump forward approx. 10 years and Marriage No.2 First born child is a little girl. This was in 1997.


Following the next 13 years we had 2 more kids. Both boys. First son was born in 2002. I noticed things going down hill right after our first son was born.

Now with two children life was getting expensive so wife went out into the work force. Things drastically took a turn for the worse.

I had my own business from 1998 until 2004.

Business became slow so I closed up shop in 2004. Shortly there after wife disappears one day. Later found out she skipped town and went back home. 600 mile away with both children.

Fast forward to 2010. Marriage not gong well and tall tale signs of Alienation even while still being married.

Now we are in 2013. 3 years of ongoing Divorce and Child Custody Litigation.

Have been Pro Per for 2-1/2 of that and have been completely Alienated from Daughter No.2 from second wife for same length of time.

I did however retain 50/50 of our two sons. Started one Advocacy Support group in 2011. Alienated Family Members.

I know own 3 Public FB Advocacy Pages and 3 Support groups by the dame name. I am a member of more than 100 others and I am here now. Advocating for the rights of children to have a loving, continuous and bonding relationship with both parents if at all possible. So in total I have roughly 40+ years dealing with Parental Alienation. Hell I was dealing with it before it even had a name.

So I am here to help but most of all I am here to listen. Why? because when I went in search of help, their was none.

I want all that have to deal with PA to know that if I can help it or have anything to do about it, you will never again be alone with your struggle with Parental Alienation. Oh yes, one more thing. 26 years later and I am reunited with that long lost daughter. She is even a member of this group. Never give up hope.

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And I thank you for your support,guidance, and friendship. Thank you also for sharing.


Jim Canie Your doing what your suppose to do Keith Marsolek! Helping others so people don't have to go through what we did because we didn't have a clue....Solidarity For Change!


I want to let you know that you are appreciated here! I had nowhere else to turn when I lost custody of my 6 kids. You and this group are truly life supporters. So very thankful for you and this group.