Alienating Parents despise when you use the word alienation to describe their parenting acts. Alienating parents are selfish, narcissistic, mean.

My step daughter is losing her young life due to alienation. Her mother is abusive to my husband, they have been separated over 6 years, and she has used that time to alienate him from the child and form the child's young mind to reject a daddy, only needing or desiring her mommy. The alienating ex screams at my husband, calls him names, insults him, never lets him talk, always speaking over him, never ever giving him an hour more than what is written on the court order.

The alienator plays the victim better than an oscar winning actress. She blames every incident on him, as she is innocent and has done nothing wrong the past 6 years. She explains the reason the child is mean to him is because HE did something wrong, the relationship between the child and him is disconnected, she says that's HIS fault. The child doesn't want to talk to him on the phone, what did HE say to bug the child....She doesn't believe that any Father should talk to their child 3 times per week on the phone...He wants the child in counselling, she states he is the problem in the child's life...She refers to his minimal time to the child as his "goddam visits" ..he begs her for an extra day, or night, she will send the child to a babysitters while she works to not give him anymore time, tells him not to concern himself about the child, as it is on her time..and he doesn't need anymore visits with the child...his meek 4 days a month is "plenty of time"....

I have been with my husband for close to 5 years, their daughter is almost 7. During these years I have watched the ex abuse him, use Family Court, Police and Legality to pain him, to dangle his child in front like a toy. The Ontario Court of Justice gave an alienating lying woman a piece of paper called a final court order, without him even present to defend his financial freedom, and parental rights to his child. The Ontario Court of Justice has granted her rights to legally abuse him, their child and ultimately us his new, and extended family.

One day soon I hope to have the ear of a Fair Equalizing Judge, I would love to testify about the years of abuse I have witnessed that was ultimately caused by their mishap.

If you walk into any store right now and steal an item you will be arrested but have legal rights to a free Lawyer, Trial, Judge and Jury. However as a parent your rights to your own child can be taken away without your presence, knowledge, or voice heard. It will take years and financial ruin to fix the impairment, it will be psychologically draining, suffering PTSD from the trauma of Court Litigation and deprivation to your own child.

Family Court ~ Jail for Parents and Children

If you have the same story read more here www.brainsyntax.com/Home/MessageDetail/1323?fw=app

with Vincent Schiele in Sault Sainte Marie, Ontario.

Photo Toronto Ontario Vincent Schiele @ the Court House 2014