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Father Rights Canada / I chose to leave she called police said I assaulted her

Friday, March 30, 2018 - Fathers - Not disclosed - Barnett - Fathers Rights Canada

Hello. I live in BC and joined the fathers rights page for bc. It seems to be not manned at the helm. I sent a msg to the page on Tuesday and still have not heard anything.

Going through what I have gone and am currently going through makes me want to help. I believe in fathers coming together to stand as one and work towards fixing the very serious problem with the family law system.

Can you reach out to the admin of that site and if there is help needed I am more than willing to pitch in.

Below is the msg I sent on Tuesday.

Hey I have been in a battle with my ex and the court system for the past 2 years. I follow this page but nothing ever comes up new on it. All the others fathers rights pages are very active.

I am passionate about this topic for obvious reasons and would like to offer any help I can.

I will give you my background so you understand my passion and position. (I’ll try to make this as short as possible)

I started dating my ex in dec 2013. She got pregnant very soon after. Two weeks after finding out she was pregnant she came to my crying saying “I can’t work anymore if you want me to grow this child properly, my job is too stressful” she was a server. Like the sucker I am or like any good man who doesn’t know the cruelty of the system I said “ok. I make enough money to

Support us both. Growing our child is the most important job there is” and just like that she quit. From that day forward. My life was a nightmare. She shut off completely. She didn’t like the feeling of being pregnant, she didn’t like what it did to her body, she though she was now ugly, she felt fat, she shit off. We didn’t have sex again after that. She hated me and hated my family. She was just mean. There is no other way to put it. Fast forward to feb 2015 the birth of my son!!!

We had been living in Vic, I rented a place for us. I payed all bills. And gave her money on the side. ($67000 over a a year and a half). I tried counselling with her and when the councillor told us that he though she may have borderline personality disorder she demanded that we stop seeing him. Eventually I had no choice but to leave. I did that in dec 2016.

I chose to leave. At that point she called the police and said I assaulted her. (Police did not arrest me) this was a lie. I had never and will never hit a woman.

I work on the road so during my three weeks away she got a lawyer and court orders were filed while I was away working. She said she did not feel safe around me so I was not able to come

Home to the house I was paying for. I got a lawyer and he pretty much told me

I was fucked. I continued to have to pay for that rental until April 2017. At which point she moved out and went to Nanaimo. During that time I gave her 3000 In spousal a month and 1545 in child support a month.

We went to court in August 2017. In Vic. Judge Barnett was our judge. Two day trail and at the end of it the judge ordered me to pay $4000 a month spousal and $1454 a month child support. That’s a total of $5454 a month. Not to be reviewed until Aug 2020. Even though our relationship was under three years in total.


Oh also she ordered me to pay back pay of $5666 for the past 8 months.


So needless to say I was and am still fucked.

I make roughly 150,000 a year gross. After taxes I make roughly 94,000. I am ordered to pay her over 60 k a year. Plus legal fees it leaves me with peanuts even though I work 84 hours a week on the road for three weeks a month.



Now. That’s the money side. Here is the real shitty side.



After court I tried to quit my job on the road and work at home so I could have my son 50/50.

She fought that and the courts sided with her. So I am stuck on the road working like this and only getting my son one week a

Month. Further to that she will not allow any of my

Family in my sons life while he is with her. Our system very broken. What they are allowing her to do is wrong. She still doesn’t have a job. She has no want or need to get a job. And the court system is the one allowing it.

I love paycheck to paycheck and fall more in debt each month. Especially when she is constantly getting our lawyers involved. It’s draining and a lot of days I feel like giving up. If it wasn’t for the fact that I have my son, and he loves me as much as I love him I probably would have called it quits long ago.



I want to bring awareness to this all. I wish we all stood together and fought for our rights. And for what is right. I want everyone in the world to see how bad the system is so we can have change!!



Let me know if you need any help from me

Contact Location: Canada Alberta





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Shamir get off the internet trying to play the victim like all the other millennial babies. You raped my brother you sicko. I'm sure the mother had a good reason to run as far away from you as she could.

   

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